Failures And Mood Swings

Mood swings, you may all be very familiar with. This is one of those gift given by our modern day life which we can’t handle plus don’t like. Though, there are some other reasons for these mood swings too that are god created but wholly restricted to the beautiful gender and that too for very few days as one of the side effects. Personally, I believe that there is no other such reason that can give you mood swings.

You are happy at a moment and sad at the next. You love Facebook and suddenly it terribly sucks. You put on your headphones, sometimes you dance to the beats and sometimes you are into the deep lyrics. Confusion is at top of all the bottom lines. Deep breathes increases, throat clearing doubles and heartbeats deceive. Nothing seems nice.

Ever thought from where does these mood swings come?

Probably doctors may have a book for this too but if you believe in god, hope, kindness, happiness you may never have such problems and things are much better if one doesn't believe in god and all, because then situation will be in one's hands to tackle.

Things become quite different when you ‘exaggerate’ the way of saying of it and it also does get quite change if you make an understatement. Mood swings are caused by one’s own desires and failures. Why failures? Because winning never makes you feel bad, may be for some else but at least not for yourself.

How you take failures depends on your attitude. You wanted to be class representative or team lead or a painter or actress but could never be, not because you were not worth because it wanted to see how desperate you are for it, it wanted to see you trying. Just like a mother, waiting to see her child taking his/her first step and you know what when you fell at that first step, you cried but you mother said “cheeti mar gayi” and you tried again and now you are this much capable that you can run against the winds, the odds. There’s always a way out of heart-ache.

Hold on to your dreams, your soul. Never let anyone to say you that you can’t do that. These people around us keep saying things. Yes. That is what they exactly do. And, they do it so ridiculously, indiscriminately, impatiently and unknowingly that it can freak out anyone...

They say “Practice makes a man perfect”… What they also say is “Nothing in this world is perfect”. They are talkers but it’s you who have to be a doer.

You compare your situations with other and you feel miserable about yourself. Ever thought why? Because

• Good is not good anymore 'coz you'd compare the good with better.
• Better is the most fucked up zone 'coz the best is so much better than better.
• Never dare to say ''you're the best'' 'coz people will laugh at you.

Save your own persona and your self. Dare to dream, dare to try again, again and again. There is no end to happiness.

P.S. Met one of my dearest school friend recently and he is in quite fucked up zone. Hope he might read this and get rejuvenate again.

P.P.S. In case of hallucinations visit and trust the doctor.

Copyright,  © Jayendra Dubey, 01st August , 2012