Formula of happiness
I think in short span of life several times we people try to customize our definition of success and targets. And I am going to repeat it again J pursuit of Success and Happiness …
Pursuing success and happiness is the toughest task for everybody. It’s something as if we are trying to reach the Horizon and we know that horizon is the line at which the sky and Earth appear to meet. Appear to meet and trying to reach there isn’t it contradictory??? What you think, just give another chance to yourself and try to sketch it out. Success and Happiness lies within same plane. Hmm now let’s go back to our basic Co-Ordinate system... Don’t worry I am not going so deep, just trying to figure out the relationship between them.
Success and Happiness are directly proportional to each other (1)
I think it’s the toughest equation we have learned from the life but very basic equation as we start getting success in our target, our happiness increases proportionally. But it’s very strange that after some extent, if we don’t sketch out our own criteria for happiness, success ever affects it. I am not trying to make any contradictory statement. Mr. Muhammad Ali Jinnah had sketched happiness for Muslims around 60 years ago but what for now and what is the condition of Pakistan? Just for a moment think as if you are the chief of UNO or any other Organization which have all the Power (then May be you are President of USA [J]) and you ask Mr. Laden that you are ready to give him what he wants. Will it stop him …? He asks that women in Afghanistan or any Muslim Country will never read anything else "Quran Sharif". Ok, you are ready that not only women, men will also never read anything else .But Will it Stop him … Will it Stop the mass killing in the countries by Al-Qaida or other terrorist groups. No. I think it will not because formulization of success and happiness for them is not so easy. Actually, I am not trying to figure out sketch of their happiness or being political I just want to give you measurement of the complexity of happiness…
Complexity of happiness can be measured by the degree of Constructiveness (2)
When we are constructive in our desires, The Points of Happiness and Success lies within same plane otherwise they just lie on imaginary plane and here, I am for the 1st case otherwise it will be my 1st and last attempt to formulize anythingJ.
And the other Key Dimension is learning with time and in my point now the last equation is
H = S + L * T (3)
Here, H= happiness, S = success, L = Learning and T = Time
Learning from past, learning latest trends or technology is also a factor which affect happiness directly. Timely check where you are heading is important to learn from mistakes done in past. Happiness is something which we choose in advance. Whether or not we like the room does not depend on the furniture, or the decoration – rather it depends on how we decide to see it. Here the basic formula for happiness is derived but limitation the formula is your vision the whole sole complexity for happiness. As we know we can’t change anybody’s perception towards life, success, country and family. We can only suggest them to be constructive in ones thought whether it’s PM, President or Rikshawala. It’s our thought which makes our life, our country happy. So Guys just check your parameters again and lead our society towards happiness.
Copyright, Jayendra Dubey, 28 DEC, 2008
Pursuing success and happiness is the toughest task for everybody. It’s something as if we are trying to reach the Horizon and we know that horizon is the line at which the sky and Earth appear to meet. Appear to meet and trying to reach there isn’t it contradictory??? What you think, just give another chance to yourself and try to sketch it out. Success and Happiness lies within same plane. Hmm now let’s go back to our basic Co-Ordinate system... Don’t worry I am not going so deep, just trying to figure out the relationship between them.
Success and Happiness are directly proportional to each other (1)
I think it’s the toughest equation we have learned from the life but very basic equation as we start getting success in our target, our happiness increases proportionally. But it’s very strange that after some extent, if we don’t sketch out our own criteria for happiness, success ever affects it. I am not trying to make any contradictory statement. Mr. Muhammad Ali Jinnah had sketched happiness for Muslims around 60 years ago but what for now and what is the condition of Pakistan? Just for a moment think as if you are the chief of UNO or any other Organization which have all the Power (then May be you are President of USA [J]) and you ask Mr. Laden that you are ready to give him what he wants. Will it stop him …? He asks that women in Afghanistan or any Muslim Country will never read anything else "Quran Sharif". Ok, you are ready that not only women, men will also never read anything else .But Will it Stop him … Will it Stop the mass killing in the countries by Al-Qaida or other terrorist groups. No. I think it will not because formulization of success and happiness for them is not so easy. Actually, I am not trying to figure out sketch of their happiness or being political I just want to give you measurement of the complexity of happiness…
Complexity of happiness can be measured by the degree of Constructiveness (2)
When we are constructive in our desires, The Points of Happiness and Success lies within same plane otherwise they just lie on imaginary plane and here, I am for the 1st case otherwise it will be my 1st and last attempt to formulize anythingJ.
And the other Key Dimension is learning with time and in my point now the last equation is
H = S + L * T (3)
Here, H= happiness, S = success, L = Learning and T = Time
Learning from past, learning latest trends or technology is also a factor which affect happiness directly. Timely check where you are heading is important to learn from mistakes done in past. Happiness is something which we choose in advance. Whether or not we like the room does not depend on the furniture, or the decoration – rather it depends on how we decide to see it. Here the basic formula for happiness is derived but limitation the formula is your vision the whole sole complexity for happiness. As we know we can’t change anybody’s perception towards life, success, country and family. We can only suggest them to be constructive in ones thought whether it’s PM, President or Rikshawala. It’s our thought which makes our life, our country happy. So Guys just check your parameters again and lead our society towards happiness.
Copyright, Jayendra Dubey, 28 DEC, 2008
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