Love or Friendship or nothing...???

Actually this one started in a very strange manner, we were sitting idle at the restaurant near by our college and suddenly we saw a young guy on his knees in front of a girl begging for something that we can definitely not hear...
After few moments she shed two or three tears in response to which the boy got out of her way (as what nano do when it hears horns from other viechels).One of my friend who knew that boy went to him and demanded the explanation for the scene. Initially the boy was, a kind of, shattered but later on after having couple of cold drinks and peeing, he looked much more composed and he narrated his story to us. Most of which I forgot at the same moment but the bottom line was the one through which even I have gone through several times and that was, what almost every girl says, "We are just good friends and nothing else.". Phew.Well that was not the end.
I reached at my room in evening and I saw my room mate watching "Maine pyar kiya". It was bit shocking to see him like that,( you know, smiling face, giving hug to a pillow). As a part of Ecstasy I asked for the reason and he blushed and said "Nothing Bro." and again smiled. He told me the whole thing when I forced him (which included 7 slaps).The matter was, one of his beautiful classmate gave him a pirated DVD to see this movie so that he can understand what does real friendship mean and what she more focused was that "he" was "her" special friend. Damn, second similar case on the same day but i guess it was the initial stage.Yep, an initial stage. You know its strange but, when a girl says that you are her best friend (that includes special as well as true friends) then she really means that... But what matters is how you go after that because if you play good, you have possibility to become hero of her life or you could become something like "rakhi brother."So the scenario of that moment was, my room mate was behaving uncannily and after a miss call from someone named "angel" he went in the same slow dancing steps as what Amir did in "Pehla Nasha" and he went out of the room. So It was something which made me write this.And when I decided to write this i counted several of my life experiences which bounded me to have a wild coffee (say no to cigarette and alcohol) and while having one i saw the DVD that my room mate has got from the miss call girl "Angel" to know about friendship. It had 6 movies in it (That's the profit of pirated DVD). And all by the famous Rajshree Production on marriages,the favourite passion of any Indian family, from grand parents to auntie (who comes only at the occasion of marriage from abroad or might be from village which is in the heart of India). But what important here is the stages of relationship and the final award that is marriage.
Like in "Maine pyar kiya" it started with a door knock when Salman was peeing (Those who haven't seen movie may give their ids to me and i'll send them the torrent, and above all they don't have any idea of friendship as said by the one breed from the most "famous" species, girls..)So, Salman was peeing and the door, which was not knocked, which lead to some "Do you have manners" kind of talk and that grew to the friendship and then ended on climax with lots of love and happiness. Yippee.And it becomes Girls favourite to define the protocol of the friendship... Before I take it to the another level I would request to those guys, who are thinking that they are going to get any tips or any conclusion, that I have NO answer for this. And why I'm writing this? Because I have some time to kill (So why not I share these observations with you).The next movie which was on that disk was "VIVAH". No name of friendship (not even any sort of introduction) and the movie was such a hit that even without the word friendship this movie is one of the favorite (To some : most favourite) movie of girls. You must be thinking "What's the point?" and the answer lies in the next movie which was a FLOP and in fact it has created migraine problems to some. The movie was "MAin prem ki Diwani hoon". It had some traces of friendship but only for the poor "Abhishek Bachhan" who loses "Kareena Kapoor" to the "Hritik Roshan" who was more dearer friend to her. Damn. I told you earlier, ITS HOW YOU PLAY THE GAME,("rakhi brother and all remember"). And the next two movies that I'm going to talk about are biggest sellers of Indian Cinema. The first one is "HUM SAATH SAATH HAIN". I don't know what was it about but it really feels good when I see this movie. Every one together- laughing, jumping, dancing, singing, crying etc etc. And no signs of "fields of friendship". Hmmm.Don't have words for the last movie. "HUM AAPKE HAIN KAUN ?". One of my favourite. I don't the connection of this film with friendship and love but it's the only question that is always in a boy's mind... "HUM AAPKE HAIN KAUN".I seriously don't have any opinion at last, in fact to make it significant I would say I liked 2012 more than these movies which released last week. Few people said that it was bit illogical to see the world's end. There was no gain of knowledge. and blah blah blah blah... To them my answer is : WHO THE HELL WENT TO SEE THE GODZILLA TO KNOW WHY A GIANT REPTILE VOMIT RADIOACTIVE WATER.and even if movies have some sort of knowledge in it then why the heck ALL these movies, that I discussed, gave me headache than answer. ... THINKING.... that what is the question...?? Then Here it goes (or you can say unsolved mystery)

1.What to do if a girl tag you as her "BEST FRIEND" (Should you laugh or jump that you have made it.. or you should cry that you have screwed it)..??
2.Don't girls should have copyrights for these "friendships" lines..??
3. World is really going to end in 2012..??? (☺)(☺)(☺)(☺)(☺)
Copyright, Jayendra Dubey, 22 NOV, 2011